Know Your Position!



I use to be one of those women who always wanted to make herself known in a relationship. Known to other women, that is. You know- young, dumb, & ready to knock a bitch out. The thirst coming off these broads nowadays are ridiculous, smh. This is the age of social networking, tablets, bbm's, computerized voicemails [yes, you can have a totally different number/ voicemail on your pc rather than an actual phone]. & you would think that a 'woman' would respect the fact that you are listed as 'Wifey' in all of the above.

0_o NOT.

I have become victim to, 'Why is this bitch calling you 'boo' on your facebook' to the 'it's 10pm, why's your friend calling you so late?' It got to the point where I realized these GIRLS lack morals. I know where I stand and WHO I am. The AUDACITY of me to question those things. A woman's love for her significant other goes beyond petty fights, checking phone bills, snooping through emails, etc. When you have substance, a brick FOUNDATION, nothing nor no one could ever discredit what you've built. It's pure;- genuine. This is what woman need to get back to- KNOWING YOUR POSITION. Be that woman who is secure & confident- sleek, but knowing. A woman is so caught up in assuming wrong doings of the man she LOVES, that she allows others to decide her fate. We, (as in women who believe in  Monogamy),have to keep up the momentum of long, lengthy, healthy relationships!!! What happened to courtship, developing love, marriage, and family? Let's understand this gift that God's given us- the gift of nourishment. Believe in forever, and it will be.

"Postulated that monogamy, as an institutional union of two persons being in love for one another, is an embodiment of ethical personalistic norm. That norm requires treating a person in a manner appropriate to his or her essential nature. Only monogamous marriage can create adequate context to fulfill it - i.e. to make possible truly human love between two persons.

^-Karol Wojtyła in his book "Love and Responsibility"

-recklessstill.2011